How Can I Get My Husband To Feel Like Giving Me a Second Chance To Make This Right?

Shelley's Question for Marsha... "When we first got married we argued a lot because my husbands family interfered a lot. But our marriage was loving and caring and we spent all our time with the kids. But dint really have any alone time together. My husband has left the home because he says he no longer is in love with me and hes not happy. We argue on the phone and in texts mainly from me initiating them because he won't communicate with me and I don't trust him. It makes me feel alone and abandoned. It makes me... Read full post here

Husband Moved Out and Wants a Divorce

Kris's Question for Larry... "My husband has already moved out and wants a divorce. His parents have been married for over 50 years and I am my husbands 4th marriage. So I am wondering about the first 10 years of his life. If his parents are still married, why does he have such an issue? He had a good childhood too, so I don't understand. My parents are still married too and my childhood wasn't bad either. My dad was really strict, but that's about it. Thank you." Larry's Answer for Kris, Hi Kris, ... Read full post here

I Fear Marriage and Divorce, Am I Ready to Get Married?

Tiffani's Question For Larry... "My boyfriend and I have been together for five years now and for five years he has wanted to get married to me, but I have a fear of marriage and especially divorce. I feel that after two kids and one on the way that I am finally ready to get married to him, but I also feel if I don't just do it now then I probably never will. Am I ready to get married?" - Tiffani Larry's Answer for Tiffani... Tiffani, Of course... Read full post here

Identifying The Signs That Your Marriage is Over

If a marriage no longer works, it does not mean that it can happen in an instant. It is a gradual process wherein you will be able to notice some signs that your marriage is over. Along the way, you feel something different and notice some unusual stuff indicating that there is something wrong with your marriage. When you and your spouse are always fighting and arguing over the same issues for several times or all the time, then your marriage is in danger. If your spouse no longer gives you any importance, it is another sign. When these signs will not be eliminated, then your marriage will eventually come to an end.

Inspiration for Living

Days can be dull, tedious, and even quite a drag sometimes. I’ve definitely spent my time in the doldrums of life. I do have quite a source of motivation to keep me going, though. I have a main hobby that I am very passionate about. That would be video games. Video games give me great joy when I play them, and they sharpen my mind because they force me to think very quickly in order to get out of bad situations. When I play a video game, I get sucked into another world and live an experience that is fulfilling, difficult, and fun. I’m able to do things in video games that I could never do in real life like fly, cast magic, and all sorts of other abilities. Video games are truly enriching and keep me motivated when life seems dull or taxing.

Options To Consider Before Divorce

Before a couple can file for a divorce, they are required to go through marriage counseling first. There is a large variety of counseling approaches that are being used by counselors in their attempt of saving a couple’s marriage. Some will be successful and some will eventually fail, but this is nobody’s fault. If a couple does not really want to save their marriage, no matter how hard a counselor try or how long the couple will go through the counseling process, their marriage will not be saved. But if they still want to get back what they had before, then the counselor will just serve as a guide so that they can get back on track.

Drab Existence

I feel like my life is wasted because I could not earn as much as I have in mind. I wanted to live a life without any burden and be relaxed and confident. But, here I am and I have a bit of a pot belly. I do not drink or smoke it all just what I got. I was not reflexive at the right times in life. Its just like playing a big football match and getting dozens of chances of scoring the big goal, but missing it due to poor timing and reflexes. It is a blessing to be situated and unfortunately I went hyper in the wrong spots in life. I have many regrets and that’s why I don’t go around smiling. Life has always been harsh. I keep trying. I keep hoping. May be there will be something better coming up.

My Professor

My Professor has been very influential in my life and I have not always enjoyed it. I spent all my school years struggling to impress my Professor. I had to pay the fees and I had to spend a lot of money for books and stationery. Most importantly, I had to commit so much time. I could have chosen to work early, rather than study for a Master’s. The Professor attracted my to the field. Most of all, I was aware of prospects of going to the US. This propelled me to sign the muster under the Professor’s nose day-in and day-out. I got no pay for study. Mine was an investment Program. My parents were patient. I always came out with a feeling that I wanted to learn more.

Ending An Affair: My Wife Says There Is Another Man But She's Not In Love With Him...How Do I Stop The Affair and Win Over Her Love Again?

Ending An Affair William's Question For Larry... "Larry, My wife has told me that there is another man she wants to see and has feelings for but is not in love with him. It has been going on for about five months. She also says she loves me and is in love with me but not like she use to be. How do I stop the affair and make her fall back in love with me?" - William Larry's Answer for William... William, When you wrote that your wife is... Read full post here

My Husband Is a Chaos Kid Who Put Our Family In Danger and Financial Ruin...Is There Any Way To Save Us?

Kat's Question For Larry... Hi Larry, I can't say my marriage of 32 yrs was ever really good. My husband, I just learned from your site, is a chaos kid.  There was one affair while we were engaged, I found out about when I was pregnant with our 1st child. There are at least 3 others since. The last was over the top. I started as an emotional affair 5 1/2 yrs ago. Then went to infidelity. But the 2 of them got our families together 31/2 yrs ago. I... Read full post here